prenatal-death
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Across the Veil Constellations
On October 7, 2024 (the day I turned 70) my birthday gift to myself was to send the final draft of my memoir off to the publishers. Just before pressing the send button, I typed this wish into the preface… Continue reading
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Ted and Irene Grant: A LOVE STORY
I only met Canada’s legendary photojournalist, Ted Grant, once. But, our meeting was important enough that (after he died) he came to me in a dream and asked me to write the story of the great love he shared with… Continue reading
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Marian Comes Home
Here is a new Continuing Loving Bonds Blog Post for you to read and perhaps forward on to others who want to explore practices for transforming deep grief back into the deep love it has always been. Previous posts can… Continue reading
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Anniversary Gifts
John died five years ago today. As happens to me dozens of days each year, on every anniversary of every special occasion since he died, I am finding myself – against my will – struggling. My instincts are screaming at… Continue reading
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In Memory of Our Not Yet Children
Trigger warning: This post is about continuing our loving bonds with our babies who died before being born. A few weeks ago, I received a letter of apology that let loose a flood of memories. During the past fifty years,… Continue reading




